I want to start with you imagining a situation of you going on a first date, or you going for an interview in a new work place. The first thing that should come into your mind is first impression, right? We all want to look good and as if things are better than ever. Why? Because we are selling ourselves.
The problem begins when we keep pretending longer and longer into the relationship. We hold on to the perfect image we’ve created and we don’t let ourselves really open up and be real. We start feeling uncomfortable around people because we’re wondering “only if they knew… what would they say?”, “If they really knew me, would they still like, or hire me?”
Our greatest wish is that people would really know us, and we wouldn’t have to pretend or lie to cover up the truth. We are afraid that if…
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